Yeah… since you are asking, try not to do anything. They’re people. They like jokes too.
Of course, all advise given in this thread is valuable, but I mean being overcautious may be the “special treatment” that is there routinely reminding them “oh you’re different”. They don’t need that. Just respect.
Yet, they’re entitled to their own decisions, triumphs and failures. So, they can shutdown the instance. Now, it would be a different thing if people really want them to be around again, raise some money, grab a backup, buy the domain name, let’s gooo!! …or not. Fine by me. If only 2 users from the instance decided to start a new one this is a huge win :)
The Age of Forks
Maybe won’t be all entirely too bad or doom… I would like to see a silver lining, some FLOSS developers are smarter than trolls.
I am still using R-lang dataframes…, Or tibbles :)
Look for free services, there are not many but some. That’s what I did at a point when I needed it as a Uni student.
As for jobs, if you are a web dev try creating a portfolio. Doesn’t need to be full blown from day 0, or ever. Look for good first issues on github. And reinvent an app in the way you’d like to just for the sake of it…
If not as personal investment, do it for the activity.
Oh, and do some sport. Like 3-6 hour of physical activity per week will keep you grounded.
Simple gestures keep you from falling in downward spiral…
Creating this post is a huge step. Congrats!
PS. Yes, applying for jobs sucks SO much. Check if there’s any event or conferences nearby… networking matters a lot, maybe even more than having an impressive CV/ Portfolio. Good luck! You deserve better :)
Here’s a book for a different audience. Explains in layman terms why to be wary about this tech, https://thebullshitmachines.com/
I use FreeTube on desktop (it’s on f-droid too!) because you can create subscriptions under local profiles (e.g. some of mine are: music, diy, news, etc.) and it allows to export or import subscriptions so you could sync devices every once in a while. Oh and a whole export holds all your profiles.
May not be perfect but I like switching front pages with these profiles…
Sounds like that toxic relationship continued through divorce with her making everyone “take sides” and stealing all support. Can’t give you any advice, you could reach out to some of your closest friends… Or, just start fresh with new people… like, moving to a new city or neighborhood.
Good luck! Stay safe and strong :)
This all comes down to my fault
No, it isn’t… Partial responsability, yes. But. Seems to me you’re handling it as best as you can, which may not be enough to some, but still that’s on them. Also, you feel remorse, that’s got to count. Anyway, above all, the gossip is way beyond you…
Perhaps not… I always considered he could be Putin’s puppet. I know he ‘simply’ admires another dictator but still, I always entertained the hypothesis… Just for being cynical, you know? :p
Under such POV, he’s just waging war. There should be some interest (i.e. looking forward to the autoproclaimed “peace” negotiations)…
Time will tell xD
What’s his crime? Drinking a succulent beverage??
Am I the only one surprised to see the USians supporting this? In spite of Trump. Just great!
If anyone can share details on this… It would be very welcome
Please, mother, stop slutshaming yourself…
Peasants? In one of the top capitalist countries?? Haha, good one… They certainly have farms, but that’s just one end of the production …
That’s not the defining characterisric for peasants, you pawn :p
I do read the docs. Even before trying software, to judge if ot will fulfill my requirements… Rocky Linux is one such example. Great docs, I’d love to try their distro one day :)
Torrentio: ‘you guys pay monthly fees for that?’
Tbh it’s the first time I see her name (iirc), and thanks to that everything, including the answer she received, was “amusing” to me.
She pretty much sounds like any of the current right-wing populists and anarchocapitalists. This is an american trend, sadly winning force everywhere… This meme is fully on-topic across the western world :(
Right? Diamond is a crystal of Carbon. Its synthesis was a challenge, required high pressure, but sounde doable from the beggining.
Now, transmuting one element into other (gold)… That’s atomic energy right there. A whole new level.